Maggie Wilson Author

Historical Non-Fiction in Northern Ontario

Ready or Not: The One Where I meet The One

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In the early 1980’s when I moved from Owen Sound to London, Old South London, or The Wortley Village as it is known today, was an up-and-coming neighbourhood. Gentrification gave chase to the seedier elements though clusters of tired and tumbled-down homes remained. This was especially the case along Wharncliffe Road, the main thoroughfare that delineated the western-most border of Wortley Village.

At one time, Wharncliffe was primarily a residential street. As London grew, the road was designated commercial and many of the single storey cottages were used as small businesses, the kind that offered legal services, upholstery, tax preparation, and the like. The larger, once stately homes, were converted into multi-plexes and student housing, complete with overgrown lawns and absentee landlords. Among the fast food and variety stores were hair salons and tattoo parlours. A bridal gown shop stood next door to a drive-through wedding chapel. A block away, a store sold exotic pets. Further still, another offered exotic petting.

A friend moved to the “village”, so I was often in the neighbourhood. I’d pass by the corner of Wharncliffe and Duchess Street to get to her place, which meant I was familiar with the red brick, three-storey building on the corner.

It was a flower shop in those days, a family run business downstairs with lodging above. I was never inside. Nor did I make it inside when the building was sold to a confectioner. I certainly meant to try their homemade ice cream but a year later I was mightily disappointed when I saw that a new owner had moved in. A sewing machine store. Sales and Service. We Sharpen Scissors.

In the meantime, I bought a house in Wortley Village. I moved three times over the course of eight years as relationships dictated. The first house was for me, the second was for The Performer and me, the third was for me and the chance to get away from the bad memories of the second.

A friend of a friend was an artist and quilter. She knew that sewing shop on the corner and highly recommended the mechanic. Not only for his ability with sewing machines, but as a good-looking and fun-loving SINGLE guy. Friend-of-a-friend wasn’t single, but she knew plenty of women who were. The call went out. Go see sewing guy.

One by one, we made our way to the shop. Carol went first. “Not my type,” she said, “But you should go, Maggie, he’s cute!”

Good grief, I had never done anything like this in my life. I was 40 and freshly released from a rather unpleasant long-term relationship. I was not ready! I agreed mostly to prove to Carol that I could do this! That I was bold, I was confident! But really? All I wanted was to get it over with, so that I could say to Carol, “Yeah, not my type either.”

One day, I needed to return a book to the library. I could have taken the direct route, but ended up walking past the sewing store.

I dithered. I dallied. Finally I entered the store. He was with a customer. He nodded hello and continued with the gentlemen. I resisted the urge to run. I probably browsed the sewing machines that he had displayed in the windows, but I don’t remember. My head was buzzing with anxiety.

singer 221

Singer Featherweight Model 221

Then I saw the Featherweight. It was an exact copy of my mom’s sewing machine that sat in the attic.

“What can I do for you, young lady?” he asked.

My stomach lurched.

“Oh! Yes, hi. Um. Can you repair these old Singers?”

What a boneheaded thing to ask.

He smiled the smile of someone who has been asked this same question a hundred times a day. Polite, but with a hint of exasperation.

“Yes. A complete tune-up is $49.95.”

“Oh, OK. I have my mom’s machine. I’ll bring it in. Some time. Thanks.”

As I turned to leave, he reached out and touched the book I was carrying. “What are you reading?”

“Oh. Lolita. Vladimir Nabokov. One of my favourite authors.”

“Huh. I don’t know that one.”

“Yeah. Well…bye.”

“Bye. Thanks for stopping in.”

Later that night, I happily checked off this item on my list of things to do: Call Carol. Tell her, “Sewing guy? He’s not my type, either.”

Several months later, Friend-of-a-friend invited me to her art opening at a gallery downtown. She of course used this venue as an opportunity for all of her single male and female friends to meet and mingle. I chatted with two of the men and exchanged emails with both. The fireman sent me a lovely note of interest about a week later. I had to let him down. I was already planning my wedding to the other guy. The sewing guy.

I must have been ready.

Or not.

Categories: Relationships


43 replies

  1. That’s a beautiful machine. Do you still have it?
    Does the Sewing Machine Man adjust your tension? Oh, sorry if that’s too personal.


  2. It’s the singer not the song!

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  3. That’s a great little machine. Also a great story.


  4. Great story! (Lolita! 😉 LOL)


  5. What?! You’re going to leave it there? …. with a massive gap between initial foray into the sewing machine store and fast forward several months when you’re planning your wedding?!!!! You’re killing me here! I’m really hoping there is another instalment coming? 😉


    • I’ll have to re-write the last bit, Joanne. I can see where I’ve left out some information. Sorry about that.

      For now, though, here’s the gist. After I met The One initially, I forgot all about him. More or less. During the “massive gap” I didn’t date. Just hung out with my friends. When we re-met at the art opening, I knew him, of course, but he didn’t know me. We had a good laugh over my reconnoitering mission those several months past. He and I went on a date the next day, and within the month, we were engaged.

      AH! I see what I need to rewrite! I chatted with two of the men and exchanged emails with both. The fireman sent me a lovely note of interest about a week later. I had to let him down. I was already planning my wedding to the other guy. The sewing guy.

      Does that work better?

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  6. Hope it all worked out well for you. Did he fix the sewing machine?


  7. “A block away, a store sold exotic pets. Further still, another offered exotic petting.” Oh, that did make me laugh. Thank you.

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  8. what a life, Maggie. What a life…. 🙂


  9. Now if that had been me carrying Lolita, and it was the sewing girl, she would probably have said, “Dirty old man.”


  10. Your relationships have left a somewhat chaotic trail through your life, Maggie; but in the long run, you should’ve learned one thing from them all – you weren’t finished ! [grin]


  11. More! I want to hear how you went from awkward conversation to planning a wedding!


  12. So it was Old South London and then it was The Wortley Village? So is this a Canadian thing? Renaming places when it becomes embarrassing or just boring? How does Google Maps feel about that?


  13. Maggie, you express yourself so captivatingly! I’m with you as to blogging being good therapy! 🙂


  14. Lovely story and I’m glad you got that relationship “sewed” up. (Sorry. Had to do it.) 😉


  15. Well-written and nastily-hanging post, Maggie. Together with the comments, a most punderful visit altogether.


  16. I wouldn’t go so far as to agree entirely that What Doesn’t Kill Us Makes Us Stronger, but I will say that among those who are able to learn, life experience can make us better even when it isn’t so hot. Your resilience and brilliance are clearly both honed the sharper and shinier by your life’s adventures. Good on you!


    • Ah, thanks, Kath. I am a life-long learner. I won’t say from the school of hard knocks, because that doesn’t seem fitting. But, yeah. I’m happy for the experiences I’ve had, mostly because I’ve learned from them. xo


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